Some may ask:
To those I would say:
Faithfully live all the commandments, give of yourselves, care for your families, serve in church callings, perform missionary work, pay tithes and offerings, study the scriptures—and the list could go on. As you lose yourself in this service, the Lord will touch and soften your heart.
(Marion G. Romney, Ensign, Nov. 1981, p. 93)